Everyone from my fellow divorce lawyers to my wife is sending me, and talking about, the "Nagging/Marriage Killer" article.
So, will everyone stop nagging? The problem is, often the "nagging" is what one spouse is doing to try to IMPROVE or SAVE the marriage. And what's even worse for a marriage than nagging is when the wife stops nagging, not because anything is resolved, but because she's given up. Nevertheless, the article has a lot of sound advice and analysis about what to do instead of nagging, or how to nag better.
"Meet the Marriage Killer: It's More Common Than Adultery and Potentially As Toxic, So Why Is It So Hard to Stop Nagging?" Wall St. Jnl. 1/25/12